One of my favorite songs of all time is The Gambler by Kenny Rogers. “You gotta know when to hold ‘em, know when to fold ‘em, know when to walk away, and know when to run.” That line? It applies just as much in the workplace as it does at the poker table.

But here’s the problem: gossip has a way of pulling you in, chewing you up, and spitting you out—fast.

You think if you just put your head down and do great work, someone’s going to notice. You think if you’re reliable, consistent, and don’t cause any trouble, the right people will eventually reward you. But let me be real with you: it doesn’t work like that.

You’ve seen it. A job opens up at your company and suddenly your LinkedIn DMs start blowing up. Folks you haven’t heard from in years are reaching out, asking if you can put in a word for them. And while you may want to help, let’s be honest—it’s hard to advocate for someone you don’t know. You’re not going to put your name on the line for someone who hasn’t built any kind of relationship with you.

Here’s the truth: sometimes you have to work with the hand you’ve been dealt—until you’re able to find a new dealer. That means you’ve got to be clear, intentional, and strategic about how you move in the environments you're in right now.

Let’s be honest—jobs change, industries shift, and the technology you mastered last year might already be irrelevant today. If you want to keep up (and stand out), learning how to learn is the most valuable skill you can have. But here’s the thing—learning doesn’t have to mean shelling out thousands of dollars on degrees or certifications. It’s really about being resourceful, staying curious, and taking charge of your own growth.

First impressions aren’t just about what you say—they’re about the little details that people notice before you even open your mouth. Whether you’re stepping into an interview, a client meeting, or a networking event, every interaction is an opportunity to showcase your professionalism and leave a lasting impression. And while the big things like your experience and credentials matter, it’s often the small, intentional details that set you apart.

We’ve all heard the phrase, “You never get a second chance to make a first impression.” And while it might sound cliché, it’s true—those first few moments can either open doors or quietly close them. Whether it’s your first day at a new job, meeting a potential mentor, or connecting at a networking event, how you show up shapes the narrative others create about you. And here’s the thing—making a great first impression isn’t about being perfect; it’s about being intentional.