You Already Know What to Do—It’s Time to Trust Yourself
If you’ve been following this series, you’ve probably noticed a theme: Advice is everywhere. But discernment? That’s where the real power is.
We’ve talked about how to filter advice, how to evaluate context, and how to spot when advice is really just a sales funnel in disguise. But today, I want to talk about the one voice that should matter most in all of this—yours.
Because here’s the truth: you already know more than you think you do.
You know what feels aligned. You know when something’s off.
You know when advice hits you in the gut and feels right—and when it feels like a performance that doesn’t apply to your life.
You may not have all the answers, but you absolutely have enough to take your next right step.
The problem is, in a world that constantly pushes us to look outward for validation, it’s easy to start questioning that inner voice. You start thinking, Maybe they know better. Maybe I’m behind. Maybe I’m doing it wrong.
But let me remind you:
You’re not behind. You’re building.
You’re not confused. You’re learning.
And just because you’re not broadcasting every move online doesn’t mean you’re not making progress.
Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is log off, sit quietly, and listen to yourself.
What do you want?
What matters to you right now?
What would feel good and true—not just impressive or expected?
Your career, your goals, your decisions—they belong to you. And while advice can be helpful, it should never drown out your ability to make aligned, intentional choices. You don’t need to chase every trend. You don’t need to follow every “rule.” What you need is the confidence to say:
“I know what works for me.”
So as you move forward, I want to leave you with this:
You are not behind.
You are not obligated to accept advice that doesn’t fit.
You are allowed to move slowly, intentionally, and quietly.
You can filter advice without guilt.
And you can trust yourself. Fully.
This post wraps up our 5-part series based on Tip #21 from Career Gymnastics—Not So Easily Influenced.
If these words resonated with you, I encourage you to revisit the series anytime you’re feeling overwhelmed, pulled in too many directions, or unsure of your next move.
And if you haven’t already, grab your copy of Career Gymnastics—it’s full of practical, real-world strategies just like this to help you navigate your career with clarity, confidence, and integrity.
Thanks for being part of this journey with me. And remember: you get to decide what belongs in your life. Everything else? Leave it right where you found it.
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